I like to think that most of the crazy things that happen in my life are because of my children. That way it's their fault and not anything to do with me. They are the ones who create the chaos right? Wrong. As it turns out it's not just the kids who are crazy... So we are heading over to my best friend’s house last night for a little Christmas shindig and my husband is driving. Let’s just say patience is one of his “development areas” (as my old boss used to put it).  We were not late, not expected to be there at a certain time, and not in a hurry. Nevertheless at the stoplight waiting to turn left he decided